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Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 4:31 am
by simply
Some people don't know how to switch gears. They get addicted to a cycle. Like the rush of a first date, over and over. Others think they're helpless, and must survive by leaching off another. Some didn't grow up with roll models, her mom may have cheated on her dad, and that's the only type of relationship she knows how to have. Maybe she was abused as a child, and thinks having sex is the only way to show love, and that she has to give it to every one. Some people avoid issues, she could have decided it was over, but knew it would be stressful, and coped with the stress, how she always dose, by avoiding the issue.
Maybe she's just a sex and or love addict.
What ever the case, there are consequences to her actions. What ever the cause, she can't get help, till she confront them, and admits that she has a problem, and needs to get help.
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 5:05 am
by mrd
Sorry to hear it bro... hope shit works out for you. I've had similar shit happen to me, but it was only (only?) 2 years instead of 5, and we weren't getting married. But it still sucked ass. And hey, with me, it was 2 DIFFERENT guys! Even better. She too pulled the same crap... "I wanna go out and party and do dumb shit every weekend" to which I said "I don't care, do it if you want, I'm just not gunna be there 100% of the time cuz I get bored of that crap easily". Apparently that wasn't enough haha.. ah well. I'm glad now because looking back at our relationship makes me fuckin pissed off so it was probably for the better.
Re: Why do woman cheat?
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 5:37 am
by S@M
raw wrote:Why do we need to breathe air? It's just the way it is.
you think thats air your breathing??? :icon25:
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 5:39 am
by S@M
simply wrote:Some people don't know how to switch gears. They get addicted to a cycle. Like the rush of a first date, over and over. Others think they're helpless, and must survive by leaching off another. Some didn't grow up with roll models, her mom may have cheated on her dad, and that's the only type of relationship she knows how to have. Maybe she was abused as a child, and thinks having sex is the only way to show love, and that she has to give it to every one. Some people avoid issues, she could have decided it was over, but knew it would be stressful, and coped with the stress, how she always dose, by avoiding the issue.
Maybe she's just a sex and or love addict.
What ever the case, there are consequences to her actions. What ever the cause, she can't get help, till she confront them, and admits that she has a problem, and needs to get help.
what ever the case, dont try to use this info to "understand" her or "work out what went wrong" just move on.....
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 5:39 am
by feedback
Same reason men cheat.
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 5:51 am
by farad
feedback wrote:Same reason men cheat.
...so that would be needing some strange pussy?...
oi
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 5:53 am
by Grandpa Stu
all i can say is ouch on buying her a car.
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 8:42 am
by Ryoki
Yeah, i'm gonna have to agree with the dodged a bullet theory
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 9:26 am
by MKJ
I cant spell u wrote:Heed my words, it is a silly fish that falls for the same bait twice.
very true. it may be tempting to take her back when she asks you to, but you really dont want to. you miss the feeling of her being around im sure, but that doesnt outweigh the hurt she caused :icon11:
Re: Why do woman cheat?
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 12:15 pm
by Kn0wFuRy
raw wrote:-SKID- wrote:yadda yadda yadda
Why do we need to breathe air? It's just the way it is.
: )
*HUGS*
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 1:27 pm
by Freakaloin
women cheat when they r whores or when u don't lay the pipe properly...
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 3:40 pm
by Absolut
It's all about opportunity.....as sad as this may sound, I believe that any woman/man will cheat if the circumstances are right. Some people may choose not to believe that but if you think about it, it's all about opportunity. This may not apply to 5 percent of everyone (everyone that is reading this is thinking that their girlfriend/wife is in that 5 percent) but anyone will cheat given the right circumstance and/or opportunity. It's probably a little too easy to arrive at that circumstance or opportunity than we would like to believe. Think about it.
Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 4:24 pm
by shaft
Take her mom out to dinner......
Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 2:50 am
by -SKID-
Wow, now thats a lot of good advice. Much more than I expected. I appreciate all the advice guys, and even gals. I know that Im better off. But as some of you know. Its hard to see that at this point of my life. I dont know if she would have taken it as far as getting married. But yes. thank god it didnt get that far. I just hope one day she realizes how much pain she has caused some one that she says she loves, and cares about, and that what goes around comes around.
Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 2:52 am
by raw
What do you care if she realizes it or not? Regardless you have to realize it's over and get back to being single. That's enough work on its own let alone with giving a shit about whether or not she dies in a fire.
Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 2:54 am
by farad
...Q3W...your web based relationship support group...
Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 2:55 am
by raw
At what point did men cease to be men on Q3w?
Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 2:59 am
by farad
...the same time the live stock stopped being nervous...
Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 3:29 am
by JulesWinnfield
raw wrote:At what point did men cease to be men on Q3w?
There were some once? :icon32:
Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 3:30 am
by raw
Yeah, there was a legend of one... I can't seem to place his name but I think it was three letters starting with "r" and ending in "w" but I'm not positive.
Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 3:34 am
by JulesWinnfield
Rawbert ends with a T
