Marriage

Post by **Scourge** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 3:48 am

Still no answer.

Post by **LawL** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 3:52 am

So answer then.

Post by **Scourge** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 4:16 am

Ok. Nothing.

Post by **Massive Quasars** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 5:47 am

Captain Mazda wrote:As much as one can be jealous of something utterly inferior

:virginity promise:

Post by **Captain** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 6:04 am

Don't hold it for me, go ahead and lose it :icon14:

Post by JB » Sun Feb 25, 2007 8:26 am

Post by **LawL** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:54 am

Scourge wrote:Ok. Nothing.

Ok Randy.

Post by **Turing** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 11:01 am

Being married is actually pretty fucking great, it must be said. As long as you work on communication and make sure that the two of you have compatible goals with the rest of your lives, I think it's a pretty damned good idea. Besides, you can always cheat if you get bored with the sex. :icon14:

Post by **S@M** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 1:54 am

yeah marriage is great, but she sounds more interested in the wedding itself. Weddings are a shit load of work, and money. See how she feels in a fews months after the friends wedding stuff calms down, if she is still keen, go for it, pop the question then let her organise it all.

Post by **Nightshade** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 1:57 am

Scourge wrote:
LawL wrote:
Scourge wrote:Australia
Jealousy.
What is there to be jealous of?

You live in Texas. Walk outside, take a look around, then go look up Australia on the internet. Case closed. Texas loses.

Post by **Scourge** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 1:59 am

What's so bad about it?

Post by **S@M** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 2:07 am

Randy if you ever do head to Aust, pm me, ill take you on a pub crawl to remember. Cook a BBQ of monumental proportions and fix u up with a aussie surf break to remember.
Then we can head back to my place for some twister, and fun adult times

Post by **Scourge** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 2:08 am

Naked twister?

Post by **Wabbit** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 2:36 am

Women marry men believing they will change; Men marry women believing they will stay the same.

I know that's kinda trite but it really is the expectations that will kick it in the ass for you. If you can't accept her totally the way she is now, it won't be better when you get married.

Another old joke "how do you cure a nyphomaniac?" Marry her. All joking aside, eventually, there will be less sex. Most of the time, it's the woman that chills out quicker than the guy. The best remedy for that is to talk to her. It's unfortunate, but true, the more (geniune) attention you pay to her, the better the sex will be.

Best of luck.

Post by **Underpants?** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 3:07 am

ek, anything to put your relationship under stress over the past few years? Any situations that put stress directly on her? How she acts in those situations may make a world of difference man, they have for me. For better moreso than for worse, she's an angel (but she won't do anal!

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R00k wrote:What a coincidence to find this thread here. I just had a conversation about this with my gf this afternoon.

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I know I'm going to marry my gf, it's just a matter of timing and money. What we have is great, so I would be stupid not to.

Awesome, man! She's a gem I reckon, from the little time we spent talking.

Post by **plained** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 4:10 am

why not jus marry several chicks

that way you can have alot of kids to help taKe over the world no?

Post by ek » Mon Feb 26, 2007 10:49 am

put it this way, i train sometimes twice a day and my whole lifestyle is sometimes a fucking mess to be around with , yet she puts up with it and even helps me out sometimes. she is absolutely great, and i cant think of anyone better to spend the rest of my life with.

and wabbit, wtf are you talking about.

If you can't accept her totally the way she is now, it won't be better when you get married.

i am just asking if the relationship changes much when people get married. currently, we have a lot of fun, get along great, and can't get enough of each other both physically and mentally - shallow maybe, but fuck i am turned on when i see her as the first day i met her...

Post by ek » Mon Feb 26, 2007 10:50 am

plained wrote:why not jus marry several chicks

that way you can have alot of kids to help taKe over the world no?

ey puc yuo men not really

ehe

u kn0w?

Post by **Wabbit** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 12:49 pm

ek wrote:and wabbit, wtf are you talking about.

Just my own stuff then. If there's no small habits/things you wish she didn't do, then it's all good. It's the first time I've ever heard of someone liking everything about someone else though.

I was married a long time. There were some things at the end of the marriage that I knew I had been aware of at the beginning but kind of ignored. Don't get me wrong, I never thought "I can change him." I just didn't know those things would become such major issues.

My ex and I get along very well btw. I still think he's a nice guy. I just don't want to be married to him.

Post by ek » Mon Feb 26, 2007 7:10 pm

if there was something i didn't like about her, i wouldn't even be "dating" her, let alone wanting her to be my wife.

Post by **shaft** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 8:28 pm

Pro-tip: Don't take marriage advice from someone who has failed at it.

Post by **Massive Quasars** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 8:34 pm

i don't think ek has to worry about his wife's pot smoking

Post by **Wabbit** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 10:01 pm

shaft wrote:Pro-tip: Don't take marriage advice from someone who has failed at it.

You can learn as much from failure as from success. Unless you're an idiot. Idiot.

Post by **plained** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 10:07 pm

wabbit where u alot younger than ur ex?

Post by **Wabbit** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 10:11 pm

3 years younger