Relationship breakups and general etiquette

Post by **shadd_** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:39 pm

don't need that shit ax. lifes too short.

Post by **ajerara** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 4:13 am

breakup by e-mail, thats so weak. Wait'll she goes back to her ex after 7 months, like that'll really work out. Just be careful after her ex becomes and ex for the second time, she doesn't come hanging around you with I'm sorry e-mails or with it written on her forehead or whatever,.

Post by **schlockey** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 4:38 am

Shes already began the "I'm sorry and i want 2 b with u" emails.

She came over today and wanted me to take her back, i let her in but told her that i wasnt ready to forgive her. She stayed for about 2 hours, we watched a movie, and afterwards she asked me if we could date again and i told her no. She seemed determinded though, she took my laundry when she left and is doing it tonight and going to return it tomorrow, she also brought me a cake she baked for me.

Post by **Hannibal** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:15 am

ffs. She's given you a small gift or something in the past right? A cheap bauble or personal item that nevertheless represents a strong emotional attachment or something. Grab a mason jar, place said trinket inside, and then over the next day or two fill it with your urine. Seal it up and give it to her the next time she visits. She won't bother you again.

Post by **schlockey** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:17 am

She has never given me anything, well, i got a drawing of a cross from her once about 6 months ago. She is quite the artist actually, other than that i cant think of anything.

I normally bought her things.

Post by **S@M** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:19 am

Grandpa Stu wrote: she obviously has an issue with confronting people if she did it over e-mail, while you were away from home. you're better off without her.

dude, get your clothes back!!!

dont let her do shit for you, its her way of denying her own insecurity - you should not trust someone who changes their mind that way. Give yourself space, time to think things over and then decide. Dont act like its a relationship still because then she knows she can play you. Tell her u need space, and are not ready to be spending time together.
Your in danger Bro, get out of that scenario while you can. Its never good when someone emotionally unstable uses you, it NEVER works

Post by **Hannibal** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:19 am

Fine, some of her artwork covered in urine will suffice.

Post by **SOAPboy** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:20 am

schlockey wrote:My girlfriend of 6 or 7 months broke up with me on sunday night. Her reasoning was that she needed someone with christ/god/jesus in their heart and i just didnt have it. She also mentioned that she had feelings for an ex about 2 days before this came about, it wasnt really shocking.

I let her go, i told her i cant be friends with her anymore, however, i wont hate her. Its better for her to be happy than to continue where she isnt.

The only issue i had with it was that she choose to break up in an email while i was gone for the weekend to a friends house. No phone call, no messages on my phone, just an email. After 7 months wouldnt a breakup in person be the proper etiquette or a phone call in the least?

fucking :icon19:

Sunday night, mine broke up with me.. FOR GIVING A SHIT ABOUT HER..

Oh well, dating a new bird now, could actually see myself settling down with this one.

Post by **schlockey** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:21 am

S@M wrote:dude, get your clothes back!!!

dont let her do shit for you, its her way of denying her own insecurity - you should not trust someone who changes their mind that way. Give yourself space, time to think things over and then decide. Dont act like its a relationship still because then she knows she can play you. Tell her u need space, and are not ready to be spending time together.
Your in danger Bro, get out of that scenario while you can. Its never good when someone emotionally unstable uses you, it NEVER works

I'll get them back tomorrow, cleaned.

Post by **schlockey** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:22 am

SOAPboy wrote:
fucking :icon19:

Sunday night, mine broke up with me.. FOR GIVING A SHIT ABOUT HER..

Oh well, dating a new bird now, could actually see myself settling down with this one.

I've always wondered how people can INSTANTLY remove their feelings for another person because of one bad time or incident, and then start dating another person right away and make comments like "oh, hey, i think this one is perfect". After 4 days, thats to say you met her right after, isnt enough time to make such a decision.

Post by **SOAPboy** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:24 am

schlockey wrote:
SOAPboy wrote:
fucking :icon19:

Sunday night, mine broke up with me.. FOR GIVING A SHIT ABOUT HER..

Oh well, dating a new bird now, could actually see myself settling down with this one.
I've always wondered how people can INSTANTLY remove their feelings for another person because of one bad time or incident, and then start dating another person right away and make comments like "oh, hey, i think this one is perfect". After 4 days, thats to say you met her right after, isnt enough time to make such a decision.

Nah i still "feel" for the last, but honestly, our relationship was pretty dead anyways.. no loss tbh, took 1 night to just say "meh fuck her shes shit"..

If she would have left me, a year ago, id care.. now tho, pff..

and btw, that little switch, in the back of your head, it turns off feelings..

Post by **schlockey** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:26 am

I felt like i didnt care and felt great for the first 2 days, then it hit me, what had happened. I'm certainly not over her by a long shot, and dont want to make her angry and i dont hate her, some people in here automatically assume that when you break up with someone they are utter shit and you must hurt them back.

Truth be told, breaking up in an email was low, i agree because i made the topic about it, but it doesnt mean i'm going to go out of my way to hurt her.

Post by **SOAPboy** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:33 am

schlockey wrote:I felt like i didnt care and felt great for the first 2 days, then it hit me, what had happened. I'm certainly not over her by a long shot, and dont want to make her angry and i dont hate her, some people in here automatically assume that when you break up with someone they are utter shit and you must hurt them back.

Truth be told, breaking up in an email was low, i agree because i made the topic about it, but it doesnt mean i'm going to go out of my way to hurt her.

Nah, im "over" her as far as wanting to date her, but yeah i care if she dies.. tho if she gets aids from her druggie friends, good.. she picked drug addicts over someone who cared for her..

If she would have just broke up with me, for a good reason, id be less hostile over it.. but honestly, she dumped be because i wanted her to call if she was going to be late.. so, basicly, i got dumped for caring if my gf was dead in a ditch somewhere :icon27:

Post by **ajerara** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:38 am

sounds like good riddance to me.

Post by **S@M** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:38 am

schlockey wrote:I felt like i didnt care and felt great for the first 2 days, then it hit me, what had happened. I'm certainly not over her by a long shot, and dont want to make her angry and i dont hate her, some people in here automatically assume that when you break up with someone they are utter shit and you must hurt them back.

Truth be told, breaking up in an email was low, i agree because i made the topic about it, but it doesnt mean i'm going to go out of my way to hurt her.

dont hurt her, but dont get caught on the rebound - thats the essence of what people here are saying. Your own feelings take time to deal with, and she also needs time. Give urself space out of respect for yourself (and her).
good luck

Post by **MKJ** » Thu Jul 21, 2005 9:24 am

S@M wrote:
schlockey wrote:I felt like i didnt care and felt great for the first 2 days, then it hit me, what had happened. I'm certainly not over her by a long shot, and dont want to make her angry and i dont hate her, some people in here automatically assume that when you break up with someone they are utter shit and you must hurt them back.

Truth be told, breaking up in an email was low, i agree because i made the topic about it, but it doesnt mean i'm going to go out of my way to hurt her.
dont hurt her, but dont get caught on the rebound - thats the essence of what people here are saying. Your own feelings take time to deal with, and she also needs time. Give urself space out of respect for yourself (and her).
good luck

this man speaks the truth
dont get yourseflf caught in the "im sorry" web, cause youll only send out the message that you're easy to fuck with.

Post by **raw** » Fri Jul 22, 2005 6:13 pm

Settling down is for faggots. I know because I tried it on for size once. The faggot didn't fit so I'm a player again.

Post by **Nightshade** » Fri Jul 22, 2005 6:24 pm

You should have tried a bigger faggot.
I don't have these problems, as I prefer women.

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