Relationship breakups and general etiquette

Post by **schlockey** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:23 am

My girlfriend of 6 or 7 months broke up with me on sunday night. Her reasoning was that she needed someone with christ/god/jesus in their heart and i just didnt have it. She also mentioned that she had feelings for an ex about 2 days before this came about, it wasnt really shocking.

I let her go, i told her i cant be friends with her anymore, however, i wont hate her. Its better for her to be happy than to continue where she isnt.

The only issue i had with it was that she choose to break up in an email while i was gone for the weekend to a friends house. No phone call, no messages on my phone, just an email. After 7 months wouldnt a breakup in person be the proper etiquette or a phone call in the least?

Post by **Eraser** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:27 am

She probably doesn't care. If you didn't care, would you do the "proper" thing or just take the easy route and be done with it? Breaking up in person is hard.

The fact that she's so far gone into not caring anymore does mean that she's on this line of thought for quite a bit longer than just sunday night.

Post by **schlockey** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:29 am

She mentioned she had been thinking about this for about a month, i wasnt overly suprised by it, because she had mentioned her feelings for an ex and i happened to catch a comment about being friends.

Regardless of how long we had been dating, i always break up in person, i couldnt imagine another person opening their email and seeing one like i recieved.

Post by **horton** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:29 am

shes a selfish cunt to break up via email.
the fact that she broke up by email should be enough for you to realise you are better off without the bitch.

this would be a good time to post any revealing photos of her that you might have in this forum,

Post by **Eraser** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:33 am

horton wrote:this would be a good time to post any revealing photos of her that you might have in this forum,

:lol:

Post by **ALLiED** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:33 am

She's going to burn in hell. :icon4:

Post by **Eraser** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:34 am

Yea it's not a nice thing to do and I don't think I would go about it that way either, but like Horton said, she's selfish and she just doesn't care. An email is so "oh hey before I forget to mention...blah blah bye".

Post by **schlockey** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:38 am

horton wrote:this would be a good time to post any revealing photos of her that you might have in this forum,

As much as i am sure you guys would love to see that, I wouldnt be able to bring myself to do that to someone i freely admitted to loving only days ago.

Post by **MKJ** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 8:38 am

the fact that she needs a religious person to be happy was probably a clue that she was a cunt anyways

Post by **Ryoki** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:01 am

Hey, at least in an email you can sit back and pour those highly explosive emotional thoughts into a coherent sharp little bit of text that says exactly what you want to communicate.

It's like an emotional car bomb.

Testoclesius · Post by **Testoclesius** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:18 am

schlockey wrote:My girlfriend of 6 or 7 months broke up with me on sunday night. Her reasoning was that she needed someone with christ/god/jesus in their heart and i just didnt have it. She also mentioned that she had feelings for an ex about 2 days before this came about, it wasnt really shocking.

I let her go, i told her i cant be friends with her anymore, however, i wont hate her. Its better for her to be happy than to continue where she isnt.

The only issue i had with it was that she choose to break up in an email while i was gone for the weekend to a friends house. No phone call, no messages on my phone, just an email. After 7 months wouldnt a breakup in person be the proper etiquette or a phone call in the least?

good luck with finding a new slut mate and if it makes you feel any better just remember not everyone can have a supermodel girlfriend like me :lol:

Post by **schlockey** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:23 am

Testoclesius wrote:
schlockey wrote:My girlfriend of 6 or 7 months broke up with me on sunday night. Her reasoning was that she needed someone with christ/god/jesus in their heart and i just didnt have it. She also mentioned that she had feelings for an ex about 2 days before this came about, it wasnt really shocking.

I let her go, i told her i cant be friends with her anymore, however, i wont hate her. Its better for her to be happy than to continue where she isnt.

The only issue i had with it was that she choose to break up in an email while i was gone for the weekend to a friends house. No phone call, no messages on my phone, just an email. After 7 months wouldnt a breakup in person be the proper etiquette or a phone call in the least?
good luck with finding a new slut mate and if it makes you feel any better just remember not everyone can have a supermodel girlfriend like me :lol:

Thank you.

Post by **Dr.FrasierCrane** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:30 am

The way she did that was low. Even if she didnt have the guts to say it on the phone or face to face its still no excuse. If she *did* care for you one little bit she would have broke up the proper way. Personally I think that religious stuff was BS, she would rather have Jesus, God etc in HER heart rather than you, that would've proveh how much youy really meant for her. Ive been dumped a few times for bullshit reasons. Id stay as friends with her but only make contact with her if say, you see her out sometimes. Dont get too close to her again, she will only play you for a cunt (bitches have a tendency for doing that).

Basically forget her, go out with your friends again, have a laff, drink beers and dont give a fuck, the bitches will come to you and your ex will regret what shes done. Try and slam some of her bible bashin girlie friends, thats a bonus fuck you to your ex too :icon32: .

Post by **busetibi** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:31 am

id give her a call and tell her the email was an unchristian way to break the news to you.
and that you have grave doubts about her commitment to jesus/god.
then tell to go fuck herself

Post by ***OptimusPrime*** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:37 am

kill her, god will forgive you

Post by **Ryoki** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:40 am

Btw, fucking hell, how did you maintain this relationship in the first place? I'd go completely mental if i had to date a jesusfreak.

Post by **MKJ** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:44 am

maybe she sucks a mean cock

Post by **reefsurfer** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:52 am

SLUT's... they are all SLUT's!

*goes back to playing bf2*

Post by **MKJ** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 9:52 am

..somebody has to

Post by ***OptimusPrime*** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 10:00 am

all jesusgirls have great sucking skillz, what you think they do every sunday at church...

Post by **seremtan** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 10:03 am

i bet she prays by email, and confesses thru MSN

[1337]Priest: tell me your sins my child
jesusgirl99: i dumped my bf last night lol

etc

Post by **4days** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 10:17 am

schlockey wrote:
horton wrote:this would be a good time to post any revealing photos of her that you might have in this forum,
As much as i am sure you guys would love to see that, I wouldnt be able to bring myself to do that to someone i freely admitted to loving only days ago.

hey, it would be a valuable part of the healing process for you.

gonna have to remember that jesus business for when i eventually tire of the missus. think it'll go down a lot better than the 'i want someone with even bigger tits' approach.

Post by **Grudge** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 10:26 am

If she broke up with you with an email, you can tell her to fuck off and stay the fuck out of your life with a clean conscience. I'd say that that crap about Jesus was probably just an excuse for getting together with her ex again. Good riddance, I say.

Post by **schlockey** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 10:45 am

Grudge wrote:If she broke up with you with an email, you can tell her to fuck off and stay the fuck out of your life with a clean conscience. I'd say that that crap about Jesus was probably just an excuse for getting together with her ex again. Good riddance, I say.

Those were my thoughts, the ex part.

Post by **glossy** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 12:50 pm

i always do it in person, except for once and only because she lived an hour away, and i got to see her once a week at most -- we did it over the phone... and i broke up with her on it too

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