if you told her how you feel (i fucking hate that sentence, sounds so ghey) and she still wants to go round fucking women then thats kinda your answer innit
Yes... good point. That's what I'm worried about though.
She called me awhile ago actualy and wants to hang out tonight. Hopefully it's all good.
uh, no. that was when gky was actually in germany, remember. he was working on that racing game FarCry, left before it got released. simple logic tells us thats at least 3 years ago :P
wheres your money now sir?
[edit] i dont know why im instigating this. it must be some sort of ocd :S
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[quote="Kracus"]Unfortunately she's Bi.
Man, You are the luckiest guy in your region and you don't know it.
She is Bi so what? That means that's another girl not a man.
I would worry more about her last boyfriend.
Good Luck
Kracus wrote:So I'm attracted to this girl who just got out of an 8 month relationship with an aquaintance of mine. I don't really like the guy that much but his ex gf is cute, smart and funny. Unfortunately she's Bi.
Now I know what you guys must be thinking. Bi? How's that a bad thing? Well here's how. We've already slept together a few times now and one of those times was with a friend of hers too. She's a little younger only 22 and because she just got done a relationship she's not really looking for another one and is more interested in experimentation, primarily with women I suspect.
So, I've told her how I feel about her and that I'm even open to the idea of her being bi and I don't mind the threesomes but I'm worried she's going behind my back and basicly having sex with that girl. As sexy as that sounds it does make me kinda jealous. Neither girl is ugly, both are in their early 20's and cute and instinctively I know neither is going to be with one another for life. This is an experimentation phaze for both of them. Of course I can't be 100% on that but this is just my gut feeling, and my gut feelings have always been pretty acurate.
So... I might lose out on a girl I really like to another girl because she's bi and kinda discovering that side of her or whatever. We aren't in a serious enough relationship where I could put my foot down and say no she can't have sex with her without me present without sounding too attatched this early in the game.
Tough call what say you?
hmm...assuming you're being serious...
so let me see if i get this right...the problem is that you like the girl but theres just one aspect of her that you dont like (her sleeping around or something or whatever it is).
IMO you have to make the decision as to whether or not thats a deal breaker. is it a big enough issue to keep you away from her? if it is, then don't pursue the matter. if it isn't, then go for it. if you decide to go with it but have some slight hesitation as someone said before, talk to her about it and tell her that you like her yadda yadda yadda and such and such is one thing you dont like. see if she likes you well enough and wants to give it up. if she doesnt, then dont try to change her. think about the matter for yourself at that point and think about what you want to do.
I wonder if pauly can truthfully tell this forum when he last had a girlfriend? you just <b>KNOW</b> he's one of those guys who ain't gettin laid very often.
Kracus you seem like a nice guy bro. i read a lot of your posts. i say keep her around as a fuckbuddy but dont let it get to serious coz she's probably on the rebound. just play it cool and get some pussy and let her go if it goes wrong. no commitment!
All I know, if you want to have an exclusive relationship, which it sounds like you do, it has to be mutual, do you know if she is serious enough about you to want to be in an exclusive relationship with you?
I'm friends with a bi girl who had been trying to get some from my ex while we were dating. At first it was hot but then I got jealous as fuck. Not only that but it sucked for me because I couldn't touch anyone but another guy.
I would tell her how you feel. If she doesn't respect you enough to not sleep around on you then fuck her (figuratively). However, you would probably be naive to think she wouldn't do something if she had the chance.
