What to do about it?
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What to do about it?
I have a brother, 16 soon to turn 17. I never really see him do much besides hang with his girlfriend and go to some car forum. He has always gave me a hardtime since I can remember by smashing my stuff like legos and n64 games when I was little, stealing and just being mean. He still does and recently he's stolen like 50$ from me and I always have to hide my money in fear of losing it. I lost 10$ that I left on a counter which I think he took because when I walked back out there it was gone. He almost broke my door down because I was making fun of him for such a loser he is. I was considering just smashing his face in with the butt of a paintball gun but I never really tried to fight him before as I just try to avoid these certain things. But enough is enough, does he just need a good ass kicking to next year or can I do something more rational and civil?
Last edited by I cant spell u on Mon Mar 13, 2006 8:07 pm, edited 2 times in total.
I know it sounds like bad advice, but get drunk and roll a joint with him. I'm a 100% serious, man has been drinking to strengthen relationships since we discovered alcohol. It works today too.
And don't be a pussy and let him walk all over you, confront about all of it. Don't go overboard about kicking his ass though, you'll regret when you're hanging out with him in a few years.
And don't be a pussy and let him walk all over you, confront about all of it. Don't go overboard about kicking his ass though, you'll regret when you're hanging out with him in a few years.
Is he your younger brother? Because the way you talk about him (smashing your toys, giving you a hard time), it sounds like he's your older brother.
Are you a pacifist, or afraid of confrontation? You need to confront him about it, every time he does something like that.
It sounds to me like you're scared of him -- as long as you are, and he knows it, then don't expect anything to change...
Are you a pacifist, or afraid of confrontation? You need to confront him about it, every time he does something like that.
It sounds to me like you're scared of him -- as long as you are, and he knows it, then don't expect anything to change...
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Is he much bigger than you?
Any real advice on your problem is more than likely going to come to physical confrontation, from the way your brother sounds.
And that's not a bad thing necessarily, as long as you let him know exactly why you're pissed and how he makes you feel when he treats you like shit.
Any real advice on your problem is more than likely going to come to physical confrontation, from the way your brother sounds.
And that's not a bad thing necessarily, as long as you let him know exactly why you're pissed and how he makes you feel when he treats you like shit.
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Yeah slightly, but overrall not really, he eats horrible too if that changes anything.R00k wrote:Is he much bigger than you?
Any real advice on your problem is more than likely going to come to physical confrontation, from the way your brother sounds.
And that's not a bad thing necessarily, as long as you let him know exactly why you're pissed and how he makes you feel when he treats you like shit.
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