What do you do when...

[Dark Metal]

This is the last place I'd ask for relationship advice.

[seremtan]

this is the last place you'd get any

[Doombrain]

this is the last place you'd get any

so many opportunities

[LawL]

lol @ all the virgins giving relationship advice.

[Tsakali]

lol @ lol's

[xer0s]

Who did she shack up with, anyway? Your firend? Her friend? Did you turn her gay?

I broke it off with her. Then two weeks later realized I made a mistake and tried to get her back. She wouldn't have me. Turns out, they get a little pissed when you brake up with em. They tend to hold a grudge. Now she's bangin some big gorilla.

[xer0s]

Funny, I don't recall talking to you about my marriage...

Having been through pretty much the exact same situation, my advice would NOT be to start dating other women. You need to figure out what's missing in yourself that you're still hanging on to this chick in your head. Work out your own shit before you foist it on someone else. TRUST ME on this one.
Otherwise you'll do what I did and wake up one morning and realize that the last 15 years of your life have been a fucking lie.

*sigh*

*shoots self*

I'm not sure I understand this. What's there to find? I just need to get the bitch out of my head. I think I'll just stick with the plan to fuck as much as possible until I find the right one. Unless you can convince me otherwise. Which will be hard to do.

[xer0s]

This is the most fucked up my life's ever been.

No, me.

[xer0s]

Damn Nightshade, lets go have a beer together.

[Captain]

What really sucks is that I don't hate my wife or anything, ffs, she's my best friend.

But do you love her?

[YourGrandpa]

Dude, it is NOT fun. This is the most fucked up my life's ever been. What really sucks is that I don't hate my wife or anything, ffs, she's my best friend. Just don't know if I should have married her.

Sounds like another dude that didn't listen to his elder guy friends when they said, "Don't get married". I'm with ya bro. Some times I teeter on the edge myself. Being married ruins a lot of things and having kids only makes the relationship worse. My advice to anyone would be, "Don't get married and fuck what you have up". Being married seems to be an old tradition that isn't working very well in today's society.

If I ever get devorced, I'll never do it again.

GL NS

[Tsakali]

yeah traditional marriage is a waste, lets just fuck as much stupid comes our way and let humanity's future play out naturally

and don't give me that "one person wont matter" bullshit, the reason we're in this situation is lack of good upbringing(which encompasses education and the like). But by all means have a few flings and a few overdeveloped sperm and let them fend for themselves.

Blaming your personal lack of good judgment on centuries old social convention is just...

[+JuggerNaut+]

ouch.

[YourGrandpa]

People are growing out of the need for marriage. Relationships don't typically work in that fashion anymore. That's why there are so many devorces. Today, men don't depend on women and women don't depend on men, like they use to. Let me explain.

Men are typically visually stimulated, don't like to cook or clean and enjoy being "taken care of". Women are typically emotionally stimulated, love being given attention and have a desire to nest. These needs are what brings couples together and keeps them together. Today men have internet porn, TV, and other forms of media to stimulate them visually. There are retaurants and other services to take care of their other needs. Women, who have clearly evolved more than men, still require emotional stimuli. But todays women aspires to something more. In doing so, she loses most of her desire to nest and need for attention. She now strives for equality in every aspect of life, which makes her competitive for power in the relationship. All of this of course ends in a nasty mess. The man neglects the woman, the woman neglects the man and since the age old necessity for one another no longer exists, the couple splits.

End of Story.
(This is not something that I claim to be an accurate representaion of every devorce. It's my general opinion. So fuck off.)

[xer0s]

The man has a point.

[menkent]

you're a fucking moron, and can't even spell "divorce". :retard:

[LawL]

rofl @ "devorce".

[YourGrandpa]

I can't get a woman, let alone a "divorce".

fuck off...

[shaft]

stupid redneck

[YourGrandpa]

stupid redneck

Yeah, drive this topic off course since it's obvious that you can't contribute.


This topic should be moved to the VOID, now!!!

[menkent]

yes, to better hide your ignominy.

[Nightshade]

I'm not sure I understand this. What's there to find? I just need to get the bitch out of my head. I think I'll just stick with the plan to fuck as much as possible until I find the right one. Unless you can convince me otherwise. Which will be hard to do.

It's different for everyone, I just think that you should really try to understand why you're having such a hard time getting over her. If it's as simple as you wanting to forget her, then by all means bang away. Just be sure that's what it is.

[Nightshade]

What really sucks is that I don't hate my wife or anything, ffs, she's my best friend.

But do you love her?

On some level, yes. You don't spend 15 years with someone without having some pretty strong feelings for them.