Advice

Post by **+JuggerNaut+** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 6:19 pm

Zerofactor wrote:Well I like her, isn't that a good enough reason to go out with someone?

her financial situation? not a huge deal. the kid? not that big of a deal. but never EVER date someone you work with.

Post by **[xeno]Julios** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 6:35 pm

+JuggerNaut+ wrote:...but never EVER date someone you work with.

never really understood this advice

also depends on the working environment

Post by **+JuggerNaut+** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:08 pm

[xeno]Julios wrote:
+JuggerNaut+ wrote:...but never EVER date someone you work with.
never really understood this advice

also depends on the working environment

the fact that chances of a long term relationship are pretty slim and most guys aren't friends with their ex's. why subject yourself to seeing this person on a daily basis?

i've worked mostly in a corporate environment and it's frowned upon anyway.

Post by **raw** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:09 pm

Coporate policy frowns on fraternizing with other employees because it can affect the level of professionalism and/or work being done. You know how it is, if you're daing a co-worker and you get into a fight, you spend the whole day dealing with that drama instead of your job.

Post by **+JuggerNaut+** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:11 pm

raw wrote:Coporate policy frowns on fraternizing with other employees because it can affect the level of professionalism and/or work being done. You know how it is, if you're daing a co-worker and you get into a fight, you spend the whole day dealing with that drama instead of your job.

indeed.

Post by **Hannibal** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:30 pm

raw wrote:Sounds like you're interested because you know she is in return. Playing it safe like that is only going to get you used.

w3rd to yer snake handlin' brutha.

Spot on.

Post by **Hannibal** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:35 pm

[xeno]Julios wrote:
+JuggerNaut+ wrote:...but never EVER date someone you work with.
never really understood this advice

Ah laddie, the down on your cheeks is showing.

Methinks you've not yet imbibed in office flavored nookie. Unless you are extremely lonely or needy yourself, the risk just isn't worth it.

Keep It Real · Post by **Keep It Real** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:35 pm

raw wrote:Coporate policy frowns on fraternizing with other employees because it can affect the level of professionalism and/or work being done. You know how it is, if you're daing a co-worker and you get into a fight, you spend the whole day dealing with that drama instead of your job.

he works night shift at wal mart :lol:

Post by **raw** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:42 pm

I don't know what happened BT but jeus, mary, and joseph that is a desperate attempt at funny.

Tell ya what, here's a pitty laugh :lol:

Fucking, hell that's so bad, I can't even bring myself to ban you. :lol:

Keep It Real · Post by **Keep It Real** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:45 pm

raw wrote:I don't know what happened BT but jeus, mary, and joseph that is a desperate attempt at funny.

Tell ya what, here's a pitty laugh :lol:

Fucking, hell that's so bad, I can't even bring myself to ban you. :lol:

fuck off raw, that is a desperate attempt at flaming, because its true he works at walmart, retard :lol:

http://www.quake3world.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=8241

Post by **Hannibal** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:48 pm

I think he thought you were saying he (raw) worked at Wal-Mart.

Post by **[xeno]Julios** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:50 pm

+JuggerNaut+ wrote:
i've worked mostly in a corporate environment and it's frowned upon anyway.

yea corporate environment I can understand completely. I've only worked a couple office jobs in my life, so to me work doesn't mean office.

Post by **[xeno]Julios** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:50 pm

Keep It Real wrote:
raw wrote:Coporate policy frowns on fraternizing with other employees because it can affect the level of professionalism and/or work being done. You know how it is, if you're daing a co-worker and you get into a fight, you spend the whole day dealing with that drama instead of your job.
he works night shift at wal mart

in that case i wouldn't worry about the "don't date your co-workers" dogma

Keep It Real · Post by **Keep It Real** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:53 pm

Hannibal wrote:I think he thought you were saying he (raw) worked at Wal-Mart.

Well then he must be pretty stupid because I was quoting what he said about the other guy's work :lol:

Post by **raw** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:55 pm

Keep It Real wrote:
raw wrote:I don't know what happened BT but jeus, mary, and joseph that is a desperate attempt at funny.

Tell ya what, here's a pitty laugh :lol:

Fucking, hell that's so bad, I can't even bring myself to ban you. :lol:
fuck off raw, that is a desperate attempt at flaming, because its true he works at walmart, retard :lol:

http://www.quake3world.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=8241

Whoops :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

That's what I get for skimming while working. Banned :lol:

Keep It Real · Post by **Keep It Real** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:56 pm

raw wrote:
Keep It Real wrote:
raw wrote:I don't know what happened BT but jeus, mary, and joseph that is a desperate attempt at funny.

Tell ya what, here's a pitty laugh :lol:

Fucking, hell that's so bad, I can't even bring myself to ban you. :lol:
fuck off raw, that is a desperate attempt at flaming, because its true he works at walmart, retard :lol:

http://www.quake3world.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=8241
Whoops :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

That's what I get for skimming while working. Banned :lol:

you're cool :lol:

Post by **raw** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:56 pm

Keep It Real wrote:
Hannibal wrote:I think he thought you were saying he (raw) worked at Wal-Mart.
Well then he must be pretty stupid because I was quoting what he said about the other guy's work :lol:

I wasn't referring to Zerofactor anyway, I was answering Julios as to why dating co-workers in a professional environment is bad. As for Zerofactor, christ bro don't date Wal*Mullet whores. You should know better, you work there. :lol:

Post by **raw** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:57 pm

Keep It Real wrote:
raw wrote:
Keep It Real wrote: fuck off raw, that is a desperate attempt at flaming, because its true he works at walmart, retard :lol:

http://www.quake3world.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=8241
Whoops :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

That's what I get for skimming while working. Banned :lol:
you're cool :lol:

Thanks for the reassurance sir. I can now pull the blade away from my wrists. :lol:

Post by **DooMer** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 8:00 pm

Ignore all of these other fags. Zerofactor, Lets face it, you need to grab a hold of the first piece of ass you can get and hold on for dear life. You aren't exactly a stud. I'm telling you this as an interfriend.

Post by **raw** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 8:01 pm

...and the no-fail backup plan.

Post by ***OptimusPrime*** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 8:06 pm

Post by ***OptimusPrime*** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 8:08 pm

that person live?

Post by **raw** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 8:08 pm

That was me while I was employed at Wal*Mart. I'm feeling MUCH better now.

Post by **Zerofactor** » Thu Aug 04, 2005 2:12 am

ppp wrote:Avoid any serious involvement with this female - that's an order!

I'll tell you something else as well, she knows exactly what you think of her right now and you my man are her supersub, her fall-back-on guy, her best-bet-at-the-moment.

Understand, this female is in survival mode and you can't blame her really. She is poor and has to take care of someone else i.e. has a bleak future and must have a really bad shoe collection (girls luuuuurve shoes).

Being in survival mode she is currently looking for the wealthiest man she can find (looks/age are unimportant to her), to turn on her womanly charms towards and nab him for herself (she will deny this).

Seems like you are all she has right now (no offence) and I promise if you were 'the one' for her, she'd be all over you like a rash and planning a wedding.

My advice, start to act 'indifferent' towards her - she will notice she is 'loosing you' and turn on a tiny bit of charm to keep you strung along because you are useful.

Now this part is important, 'use that opportunity' to jump-her-bones-till-yer-eyes-bleed just so you can do this chick and get her outta your system. After that move on, nothing to see here. If she turns down the offer of 'free large sausage' then you at least know where you stand and she was indeed seeing you as a cash dispenser.

Play the game and play it good, you're young and horny and you seem to have been caught in the spell of just one of these female personages, this is not good, bad doggy, snap out of it and look around - there are LOADS of others to play with.

Good luck

p.s. I wish I was around to tell me this when I was going through the same thing...

This sounds sorta right, I guess.

Post by **ajerara** » Thu Aug 04, 2005 2:43 am

it's kind of weird that you're making her think you're her friend when you're really waiting to jump her bones. One prob I see is no matter how lousy the ex is, he's the father of her kid and if he comes back saying things will be different I want another chance, you might be out the door in a trice. This has happened to a friend of mine recently, although there wasn't a kid involved.
Another prob is that after being " friends " for a period of time when you really want to be lovers, when you finally announce yourself she may head for the hills. Happened to another friend of mine. He pretended to be friends for about 6 months before he revealed his true intentions, then the girl rejected him, and he was devastated for quite some time. He thought she was his soul mate. I kind of don't believe in being " friends" when you really want to have a relationship. If someone tries it with me, I just stay entirely away from them unless I really want to be with them.